Humble insight from past personal dating experiences from the founder of DrewryNewsNetwork:
In life, we gain relationship experience from our dating partners. Some experiences really leave a person feeling blue. Why so? Depending on how the relationship ends for whatever reason, feeling and emotions tend to suffer from depression. A person shouldn’t take it as the end of the world, just because the pair broke up. Look at it as a temporary feeling for the moment, which eventually does down to almost nothing over time. In the end, the experience you learned from, as well as feelings felt, should just be taken as a positive learning experience to help shape you in dealing with the next dating encounter with more maturity and judgment.
From my personal experience with adversity, I can say although at the time it made me bitter, I certainly had time to evaluate myself to see where I went wrong first before pointing the finger. There were flaws within myself I didn’t notice back then. For years, I walked around with a stoned heart, because I felt all women were the same. Although a majority of men and women are generically the same character wise, my past dating experiences have taught me a valuable lesson. The lesson learned was to correct first what needed to be worked on within my character, so I can potentially keep a woman attracted to me with longevity. How do I do so? Money’s not everything in a relationship. Character and good will outshine the financial aspect of any person. A person worthy of introducing to their parents means you have the official stamp of approval. Being mature and considerate towards others feelings also help to keep a healthy relationship. This too I learned over the years.
What I tell people nowadays is if you’re in a relationship and you feel it’s going to go sour, still hang in there and let it play out to the very end. Ride the emotional rollercoaster if you have to, but gain the experience. Let it not get you bitter and harsh, but yet, perhaps use what you’ve learned and use it as motivation to succeed in life. Perhaps using rejection as a vehicle to start your own business, or going back to college and finishing your degree. Relationship experience helps to make you a better person towards unexpectedly meeting that special someone that may turn out to be your life soul mate.
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