Truth: Your way of thinking is wrong if you thought for a split moment that transformation was going to be a smooth sail. Transformation is all about painful growth across the board.

 

The people you grew up with back home that switched up on you later known as childhood friends still hold a special place in your heart though you’re no longer friends parted ways as adults today. despite the fact that former childhood friends did you wrong, they still hold a special place in your heart regardless of the fact that you could never be friends with them ever again in life. From time to time, you still look back on the beautiful memories you have with them growing up together in the local neighborhood and laugh about it to yourself. Transformation truly teaches a person to never get too close to people and “be willing to let anything and anyone go in order to grow spiritually and transition into a righteous person.”

 

Some people you’ve dated in the past still impact your mind and heart to this very day because it was something about them that led you to believe that they were the one for you, despite things not working out. And though the relationship-fling-“whatever it was” ended on a sour note, it gave you a little extra mental push to go the extra mile in the uncertain game called life because you felt you had something to prove to yourself and the world that “your worth is priceless.” So you went the extra mile despite parting ways in the relationship with that person and achieved more than you originally vision. Transformation is truly a journey that’s beautiful, yet emotionally painful. But it’s good for your mind and heart to endure in moving forward in life because it brings positive things out of you you never knew you possessed.

 

A group of people or someone with in a certain financial class offers you a unique opportunity and not only takes the opportunity back from you without explanation, but dismisses you for no reason. This is a good thing because when you look at it from a spiritual point of view, transformation is teaching you how to deal with negative situations in the moment by not chasing anyone that possesses financial privilege. When you refuse to chase someone who’s financially privileged regardless of your current financial status or position in life today, not only are you building spiritual muscle and exercising emotional restraint, which are also proving to yourself and your naysayers how much stronger you are than the person who offered you the opportunity in the first place. Transformation has no guarantees of 100% support from family, friends, coworkers, family members, and people who say they love and support you. You can create your unique opportunity by continuing the journey of doing the transformation work spiritually and physically out of inspiration or desperation regardless who takes an opportunity away from you. And because you refuse to chase someone for an explanation why they took an opportunity away from you or you refuse to sweat them for anything else, you are no less of a person for standing in the class by yourself. It’s better to stand alone and be seen and thought of as a fool, than to run back to someone and allow them to have power over you.  Your worth is priceless beyond worriedly tangible gain.

 

Be thankful family members and former employers slandered your character. That’s letting you know they feel inferior to you and to them, you’re considered a “triple threat.” So they resort to dirty tactics to “derail your character.” Who said transformation involved family members always being supportive when you’re striving for excellence to make healthy changes? Who said your employer would be 100% supportive of you after claiming religion on-the-job? While your family members and former employer had it out for you because you continually strive to better yourself, you have to go through the mental hardship of having them turn on you. This is a hidden blessing in disguise because it shows you who people truly are when you’re going through trials and tribulations in this life. While transformation is a painful experience, it’s also a beautiful one, because what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. And after family turns on you and judges you as an outcast, that experience to make sure stronger because “family is not always blood.”

 

transformation is a journey of free will not forced on anyone. It’s a journey to walk if you’re sincere about making healthy spiritual and physical changes. Transformation is the less road traveled and a narrow road. Straight and very narrow. You’ll experience all kinds of changes. Despite making physical changes such as losing weight, life achievements in entrepreneurship and otherwise, you’ll discover along your transformation journey your train of thought will suddenly change. Your past habits will suddenly fade, such as overcoming alcoholism, biting your nails, negative thinking, etc. But going through a transformation journey, you’ll also experience losing childhood friends, family members turning on you, your parents highly suspected of being jealous of you because you made a huge achievement they did it in the past, threats from family members, employers set you up for secret termination because you claim religion on-the-job and don’t fit into company culture, etc. It’s an ironclad fact that transformation will definitely change your way of thinking how you view spirituality, the world and yourself. It’s a slow and painful process. But if you really want to make healthy changes inside out and be the change for the world to see and letting your light shine from the inside out, be willing to go through the trials and tribulations associated with true transformation. Be willing to lose anything and anyone and anyone’s friendship in order to achieve total righteousness. Transformation is not an overnight process and doesn’t involve drinking a protein shake in losing weight. That’s just the surface. True transformation is an inside job starting with the cure ration of the heart and soul, followed by changing your way of thinking and being a more positive person.

 

When you dedicate yourself to doing the transformation work and staying the course, you’ll notice you’ll become more of a positive person and your thinking will be on the positive track. Whatever happens to you in life, don’t let it keep you down. It may get you down mentally, spiritually and emotionally for a while, but never throw in the towel. lastly, if you happen to overhear someone discussing you in private to a friend and you know they’re referring to you as a “weirdo,” take that as a good thing. It’s a blessing to know that you have such an impact on the mind of someone that refuses to speak to you in passing. Always know your worth is priceless and others acknowledge it whether they want to or not. If someone ignores you and judges you as being a [weirdo], smile to yourself and keep it moving. 🙂

 

Stay humble and hungry.