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It’s always something that comes along in your life that challenges your thinking. Maybe it’s the slow progression toward achieving your college degree. Maybe it’s the people you grew up with that now switched up on you and you have no choice but to part ways with them. Or the person you’re dating has now switched up on you and ready to break up. Truth is, you’ll never get through this life without going through something. If life is always going smooth for you without any type of challenge, that alone is something to start worrying about. Challenges bring about spontaneous growth.

 

Dating: If you’re in the infancy of dating and the person you’re in the relationship with starts to show signs of no loyalty and you’re continually trying to stay in a positive mindset, chances are, you’ll end up getting dumped in the long run. Getting dumped is not a good feeling because it affects more than maintaining consistent belief in yourself. It hurts your confidence to the point where you quietly question yourself if you’re able to go throughout life thinking positive and thriving in employment, business and personal relationships,  healthy maintenance of finance, etc. Getting dumped not only hurts a person’s confidence, but also creates trust issues. Looking at getting dumped from a spiritual perspective, it can be a blessing in disguise. Maybe the person you thought was a good future soulmate was actually a loser that was helping you pass time in the moment. It was probably a good thing that you got dumped. It forced you to “examine yourself,” to the point of discovering after maturing later in life that the person you were dating is not only spiritually incompatible, but a spiritual energy drainer. After getting over the relationship severance, you probably will come to discover that getting dumped boosts your confidence because you didn’t allow it to hinder your ability to move forward in the game of life. And lastly, getting dumped is a good thing because it subliminally motivates you to take entrepreneurship seriously to the point of being a future millionaire. It’s always good to see the good in and negative situation from the awesome power of positive thinking.

 

Family: Just because a person is related to you doesn’t mean they support you unconditionally. When certain situations arise, it tests your positive thinking and your family’s loyalty to see if there truly in your corner as they claim “they love you.” The false claim of loving you is actually a slap in your face lie. How do you stay positive when family members have the audacity to tell you a straight face “slap happy grandpappy” lie? It’s called developing a thick skin. Coming to terms with the truth that family members aren’t always supportive and are “of the flesh” will help you subliminally have faith in yourself, inspiring your mindset to be a positive thinker without the support of hypocrite family member(s).

 

Facts of life: Without adversity presenting itself in your daily strives to greatness, how do you know what you’re made of spiritually, mentally and physically? Trials and tribulations come in all shapes and sizes. Your greatest tests come from those closest to you. Your greatest tests also come from circumstances when you meet people and certain  things  the most. People will always try to play you to create a feeling of dependency that you meet them and that you’re nothing without them. Don’t be a victim to that type of thinking. It will rob you of a positive mindset. Always believe in yourself regardless of what life presents to you and see the good in bad situations. Whether it’s a family member switching up on you to look good for people in worrying about their rep and image, wrongful termination, childhood friends turning on you, or getting dumped in relationships because you don’t have certain things, keep going the extra mile to believing in yourself with a good outlook for the future.

 

‘Conclusion’

It’s your way of thinking that can accelerate or hinder your future progress. How you handle your trials and tribulations now may be a positive set up for the biggest comeback to come in the near future.