People say they support you in the beginning until they find out you’re struggling. Or not living up to their expectations of you. Then they start distancing themselves, ignoring you, and slowly rejecting you. When they see things changing in your life for the better, that’s when they start speaking again and coming back around acting as if everything is all good.
Haven’t had this happen to you yet? Hang in there. You’ll gain some life experience and see people for who they are sooner or later. It doesn’t matter if it’s a family member, girlfriend, boyfriend, a member in your church, your employer, next door neighbor, or someone you knew from back in the day. People always come running back when they see you doing good without them. Then you’re the one that’s wrong for blowing them off by pushing them away.