5 Ways to Use Negative People (Co-Workers and #Family Mebers) to #ThinkPositve and Profit Financially

negative situations among family members, friends, coworkers, people on the street and sometimes elsewhere are almost unavoidable. It's how you respond that helps you build spiritual and financial strength. Are you doing the transformation work out of inspiration or desperation? Or being a lazy couch potato?
 

1. Ignore and/or laugh off what family members or co-workers say to you or about you behind your back if you find out what someone said. You save your breath and time responding. That enegy can use used to further your education, build an automated cash generating business that potentially makes money 24/7, all while you transformed their hate into positive energy, while building and achieving “multiple strems of income.”

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2. Get very quiet if necessary. When you get quiet and sometimes repsond with 1 or 2 word answers, this peaks the curiosity of those who oppose you to how you think. They don’t know how to come at you anymore with actions or words. Let them stay baffled. Respond quickly amnd don’t say anything that you’l later regret (if they’re secretly recording you).

 

 

3. The more their negativity tries to rent space in your mind, use the memory of it to exert more positive energy toward the good things the future has for you. Spiritual growth-maturity on the rise, a booming business, perhaps dabbling in the future with real estate ventures and the oil and gas business, helping the less fortunate, major contributions to some charities, and possibly more.

 

 

4. Dress down in suits and nice shoes. This is a clear and concise message that you care something about yourself. This send a message in concise clarity that you have standards, and refuse to settle for sloppy seconds. It also forces people to see you in a different light and quietly commands “respect.”

 

 

 

Below is a quick YouTube video transcript from speaker-entrepreneur Dan Lok speaking on his “YouTube haters”:

“Transcript

00:00
– I have a number haters on YouTube.
00:02
And I looked at this.
00:04
The minute I will upload a new video,
00:07
I would always get the same people.
00:09
Like, I don’t even know how this works.
00:12
Because the minute I upload a new video,
00:14
my team uploads a new video,
00:15
I would always get the whatever,
00:17
three or five or 10 thumbs down.
00:19
Like the minute, everyday,
00:21
they would post negative comments.
00:22
We block it out.
00:23
But I know they’re in there.
00:24
So they don’t like you.
00:26
But they watch all your stuff everyday.
00:31
And they interact with your content
00:33
the minute you post something.
00:36
And they post a comment consistently for months.
00:39
But they hate your guts, still.
00:42
I guess that makes them a fan.
00:45
Wouldn’t you say?
00:47
That makes them a fan.
00:49
They’re spending an awful lot of time hating, right.
00:52
A lot of time hating.
00:56
Write it down.
00:57
How people see you has got nothing to do with you.
01:02
How people see you has got nothing to do with you.
01:06
It has everything to do with them, ’cause isn’t it true?
01:08
You can post one article and some people will say,
01:10
this is a phenomenal piece of content,
01:12
this is awesome, this is life-changing.
01:15
Same piece of article, some people would say,
01:17
this is a piece of shit, this is garbage,
01:20
you just wasted two minutes of my life reading this post.
01:26
Are you looking at the same post?
01:28
How could it be?
01:30
How could the same post, two different people reading it,
01:34
one says life-changing, it’s phenomenal,
01:36
one says it’s a piece of shit.
01:37
How could it be?
01:38
Because it’s got nothing to do with the post.
01:39
It has to do with them.
01:41
Their upbringing, their belief system,
01:43
their psychological makeup.
01:45
Do this with me, do this with me,
01:46
go ahead, put up your hand, go ahead, do this.
01:50
Every single one of us sees through life with a filter.
01:55
Put it down.
01:56
You are watching me, right?
01:58
You are watching me.
02:00
I’m communicating, I’m teaching.
02:04
You hear completely, something different, right, from you.
02:10
And you hear something completely different, from you.
02:15
Because you don’t hear a damn word I say,
02:16
you hear what you want to hear.
02:20
You hear what you want to hear.
02:21
You hear, oh that makes sense for my business,
02:23
I’ll take that in, right
02:26
or no, no, no, I totally disagree with you.
02:29
It doesn’t make sense at all, so I don’t hear you.
02:33
You hear what you want to hear.
02:34
You don’t hear what I say.
02:36
So we all have a filter.
02:37
So when you post content on social media,
02:41
knowing that you get haters, not because they hate you
02:44
and usually the people who hate other people the most.
02:47
Guess what?
02:50
They hate themselves.
02:54
They don’t hate you, they hate themselves.
02:56
Usually nameless, faceless.
02:58
No name, why?
03:02
Why no name?
03:04
Because they’re hiding, they don’t want people to see.
03:08
They don’t want people to know who they are,
03:11
that’s why they hide.
03:15
I don’t hide.
03:17
You see me, you see my wife.
03:18
You know what my wife looks like.
03:20
You know what my house looks like, what car I drive,
03:24
yeah, you know what car I drive, what watch I wear,
03:28
doesn’t get more trans, the thing they don’t, is what,
03:30
you know, what underwear brand that I wear,
03:35
you know, depends on where I am,
03:38
(laughing)
03:40
you know, at home maybe it’s like, just naked, who knows.
03:43
(laughing)
03:44
Right, so yeah, but you now see what I’m talking about?
03:47
This is very powerful because when you are,
03:51
when you’re a strong personal brand,
03:53
the key is it helps you to do all the pre-selling.
03:59
Write it down.
04:00
Personal brand equals pre-selling.
04:04
It’s not about having a fancy name,
04:05
a fancy picture, all that stuff, no.
04:08
It’s by the time they interact, they get to you,
04:13
they know you, like you and trust you.
04:16
You do not have to spend time.
04:20
They know you already.
04:21
They know your story, they know what you’re about.
04:25
So instead of spending all that time, usually,
04:29
one-on-one to build up their trust, right, to meet someone.
04:32
How many of you, you know, have ever experienced this?
04:34
You meet someone, a stranger, a recommendation, right.
04:36
Okay let’s go to lunch, you get to know this person,
04:38
they get to know you, right, and then from there
04:39
you spend a lot of time, right, networking.
04:42
How many have ever done networking before?
04:43
Yes, right, traditional networking.
04:46
Personal branding on social media the same.
04:47
It’s networking but on steroids, it’s accelerated.
04:51
So instead of one-on-one with 10 people,
04:54
why not have one to one million?
04:58
They consume content.
05:00
They want to get to know you, at their own pace.
05:04
They can watch one video or they can watch 10 videos.”

 

 

5.  Think that you can outdo them before you’ve outdone them. Negative situations, whether in ther workplace, negativity from jealous family members, etc. is a subliminal message that greatness is right around the corner. It’s best to think positive while enduring different levels of adversity. It’s a spiritual test to see what you’re made of. Enduring hardship makes you a good soldier and positions you for future benefits your mind can’t fathom.

 

 

 

 

 

 

‘Conclusion’

Hate makes the mental growth stagnate. When they contemplate, do the transformation work out of inspiration or desperation, and let their negative energy be a positive investment in you by accelearting you to unthinkable success, by increasing your financial weight.

 

 

 

 

Checkmate!

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